When you practice BDSM you often find yourself thinking differently because of your kinky sexuality. I’m sure you can relate to many of these situations:
1.- When you enter a bazaar “everything at 1€” it is like going to Disneyland.
2.- When you come across people with tight or leather necklaces you usually think it is because they are not vanilla.
3.- When you see a movie in which someone is tied up, you always think it is a botched job and that they are not tied up properly: “But they can escape!
4.- If you go to DIY stores your imagination goes wild and your innerhandyman comes out. “Oh, what wonderful bridles”, or “Look at these chains!” or even “Have you seen those wooden strips, we could make an ideal trap with them!
5.- You find traditional porn infinitely fake and boring.
6.- When you are going to have a play session away from home you want to take all your toys with you. “Just in case.”
7.- 50 Shades of Grey seemed like a bad joke with a lot of posturing.
8.- You know that saying or being told “bitch” or “dog” in the right context is a super affectionate act.
9.- When you show a photo on your cell phone to someone you are afraid that they will move on to the next photo and it will be a compromising image of your last session.
10.-If you go to a costume store you look for the most fetishistic outfits. “I’m sure this sexy kitty outfit I’ll wear it after the party too!”